7 moms re-imagine baby registry must-haves
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By Lauren Floyd, Honeycomb Moms
We’ve planned. We’ve birthed. We’ve learned. The consensus: Do use a Target.com account for your registry. You get exchanges up to a year without receipts, and they have a wide selection. Don’t stress over the perfect stroller or carrier. You’re amazing, so you’ll make anything work. Consider these products recommendations to make life easier from the seven Honeycomb moms.
Philips Avent Super Soothie pacifiers
My heroes are tiny, but I love them the same. They quiet baby’s endless refrain. A couple of sucks and less sleep I am missing. How my house goes to hell when my pacifiers go missing. Get a pacifier clip too for easy travel, and that's where my poetry career ends.
I decided I didn’t need bottles because the lady leading the breastfeeding instructional said they can cause nipple confusion. When the baby was born, I decided to ignore her because we obviously need bottles. Honeycomb mom Jessica Hawkins recommended the Life Factory glass bottles. Although, they're about $17 a pop for 9-ounce bottles, the lids can be changed to convert the bottles to sippy cups later. So you get your money's worth. If you can't afford to do glass, the plastic Avent ones work just fine for Honeycomb mom Sacandice Burnett and I, and Honeycomb mom Sydnea Rutland likes the Dr. Brown's brand.
I'll admit I bought a $120 wooden Eddie Bauer high chair completely based on design aesthetic, but Sydnea and Honeycomb mom Jerusha Washington recommend getting something that also practically fits your lifestyle. If you need to be able to drag your baby around the house with you, Sydnea recommends a high chair with wheels like this $85 Kid Cafe option. It leans, so your baby can drink a bottle while you pull the chair behind you and clean. If you want something that works more like a booster seat, try this hybrid booster seat/high chair, which is easily tucked away out of sight. Meanwhile, I'm ogling this $130 wooden looker by Pali because it's pretty.
Items such as a car charger to pump on the go and breast milk storage bags didn’t rev up much division in the ranks of Honeycomb moms, so do get those. But I’m the only one who used Freemie cups before the tried and true Medela pumping bras. I lost an essential piece to one of the cups, and made the switch to a bra to save money. I have to say using the cups was easier than changing my bra multiple times a day. Just follow the first-use instructions, stick them in your bra and enjoy. Sydnea and Sacandice, however, live by the bras. Sydnea has more than one pumping bra, so she wears hers all day. That's a major key.
Fisher-Price 4-in-1 Sling N Seat tub
The Blooming bath is a popular sink insert, but ringing out those thick petals can get old, and using it on Donovan as a newborn would have taken one person to hold him and one to wash his 7-pound body. There are few two-person jobs in my house, so my mom got the Fisher-Price tub. The infant net allowed me to bathe him by myself. You can attach the whole tub to the sink divider or put it in the bathroom tub, and it's only about $35.
Clothes, cloths and bibs
Everyone’s baby is different, but I’m willing to bet that they all grow and they all spit up. So be sure to ask for clothes for ages 10 months and up, and request a ridiculous number of spit-up cloths and waterproof, lined bibs. Don't forget the Dreft, detergent, to wash it all in.
Swing and rocker
Four Honeycomb babies used and loved the $50 Fisher-Price Newborn Rock 'n Play Sleeper. It’s perfect in the kitchen while cooking, has a great line of vision, and you can rock it with your foot if they get fussy, Jerusha said. If you want an even more self-sufficient product, look no further than the Fisher-Price My Little Snugapuppy Cradle'n Swing. It’s worth every dollar of its $127 price-tag. It calms our baby’s crying and distracts him with a spinning mobile until he falls asleep.
Popular baby carriers
In mommy blog world, Moby, Boba and Ergobaby are by far the most popular brands of baby carriers, but the Honeycomb moms don't think brands matter much here. What you want to look for is something that has an added strap or tying option that runs horizontally across the back for support. All three of the popular brands meet that barometer, so if you want to go with one of those here are some other comparison points to consider: Ergobaby carriers are easy to use and flexible but upward of $100 and in some cases, closer to $200. Although less than $40, Boba and Moby wraps can be intimidating and hot in the summer. The only obvious difference between the wraps is that the Boba has spandex, lending for more stretch but sagging if not tied tightly enough. To opt out of the intimidation factor with wraps and still get the look of a wrap, you may also want to try a Baby K'tan at $50 a pop. I took my first plane ride with baby using this wrap. And although our airport experience was disastrous, the wrap gave great support.
Lotions and soaps
I like Shea Moisture’s head-to-toe baby body wash, Burt’s Bees Baby wash and Vaseline. Although I wouldn't use knockoff petroleum jelly, my mom has my husband and I rub Vaseline on our baby’s bottom every changing, and he’s never gotten diaper rash. Vaseline has healed everything from chafing discoloration to mild eczema flare-ups. Natural oils also impress. Extra virgin olive oil and coconut oil have helped multiple Honeycomb moms heal flaky baby scalps.
Monitors to consider
The $80 iBaby monitor reigns supreme in terms of digital video monitors, but the Anglecare breathing monitor may be a more important priority. It ranges between $100 and $200 from Bed Bath and Beyond depending on the edition.
As the mother of a hefty baby boy, I wish I would have opted for a convertible car seat, skipped the traditional stroller and went straight for an airport-friendly travel stroller for older babies. But a travel system, which combines an infant car seat and stroller, was by far the most popular option with the other Honeycomb moms. Whether you opt for the $161 Graco Aire3 Click Connect system, which Sydnea recommends, or the $320 Britax B-Agile 3/B-Safe 35 system, which Judea Dee-Steele loves, you can’t go wrong in terms of convenience and ease of use. Both car seats have max weights of 35 pounds. The Graco stroller has a weight limit of 55 pounds, and the Britax option gets you 5 extra pounds. Regardless of your pick, get an extra base if you have two cars in rotation. Installing the base is a headache you’ll only want to endure once or twice.
Car seat and stroller picks for multiples
If you're a mom of twins, save a few bucks and try an option that allows you to convert their car seats into strollers. I met two moms of twins over the past two days, and both used snap-and-go options like this $70 Baby Trend stroller. Jerusha said she had visibility issues with her $200 Graco Ready2Grow stroller when her twins were younger. But now that they are 1 years old, she loves it.
Changing table needs
You may be able to get away with a lidded trashcan when your baby's a newborn, but you'll definitely want an actual diaper pail by the time she starts eating solid foods, Sydnea said. I use the Dekor pail, which is just under $40, but I wouldn't recommend it. I haven't been able to find off-brand disposable bags to use with it. We switched to the cloth Dekor bags when we ran out of the disposables, and we've had a stinky nursery ever since. Meanwhile, Jerusha said she loves her Diaper Genie, also just under $40.
"We use the off-brand, and cat liter bags," Jerusha said. "Apparently there’s a Genie for cats. They all fit and are cheaper."
Crib, sheets and boppies
Crib selection was mainly aesthetic for me. Just be sure to get a convertible crib, so you can use it over time. Don’t forget a waterproof mattress, at least four fitted crib sheets and a boppy and cover for each level of your house. Don’t I repeat, do not put the boppies in the crib. When I was a breaking news reporter for The Atlanta Journal-Constitution, I did an awful story about a baby dying that way, and the parents were charged with murder.
Grocery delivery service
There are tons of meal delivery services available. Many of them are either out of my ideal price range or intended for people who want to routinely try new recipes. Cooking is more of a necessary evil for me, so I prefer Instacart. I can get my necessities delivered from CVS, Publix, ALDI and BJ's stores. Even though the annual fee is $149 and you still have to meet a $35 minimum to get free delivery, I don't have a problem with either because I can get necessities like diapers delivered.